http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/454630/How-can-my-daughter-deal-with-mean-classmate-and-the-felling-that-she-does-not-have-friends-because- She born with a Birth defect "cleft lips and palate" and she have very low self I already have take her to the sociologist for therapy but has not help very much she is very frienly when she knows the people but not at school I have not what else to do GreatSchools en-us LoriDM It's easy to tell a child to stick up for themselves, but in reality it's a very frightening thing for a child to have to face on her own, and ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/454630/How-can-my-daughter-deal-with-mean-classmate-and-the-felling-that-she-does-not-have-friends-because-?cpage=1#comment_526681 5100.526681 Wed, 22 Jul 2009 14:03:41 -0700 Sunshine350 Well, It seems like your on the right track. Your doing the right thing as a mother. as far as getting her the treatment that she needs to deal with ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/454630/How-can-my-daughter-deal-with-mean-classmate-and-the-felling-that-she-does-not-have-friends-because-?cpage=1#comment_509694 5100.509694 Tue, 14 Jul 2009 13:07:35 -0700 kordads3 It sounds fine and dandy to tell you that your girl must stand up for herself, but i find that many kids haven't harnessed that skill at such a young ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/454630/How-can-my-daughter-deal-with-mean-classmate-and-the-felling-that-she-does-not-have-friends-because-?cpage=1#comment_506859 5100.506859 Mon, 13 Jul 2009 17:38:47 -0700 mrsestrada02 I tell my 5 year old she has a special mission she has to teach them how to used their good manners, I tell her it wont be easy but ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/454630/How-can-my-daughter-deal-with-mean-classmate-and-the-felling-that-she-does-not-have-friends-because-?cpage=1#comment_494495 5100.494495 Sat, 11 Jul 2009 00:45:52 -0700 msandow6 I purchased a popular American Girl work book on bulling. It had some good hints on how to stand up for yourself. My daughter was bullied to the point of ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/454630/How-can-my-daughter-deal-with-mean-classmate-and-the-felling-that-she-does-not-have-friends-because-?cpage=1#comment_492866 5100.492866 Fri, 10 Jul 2009 19:14:12 -0700 perent13 Hi! Your daughter needs to stand up for herself. That the only way she cand make the bulling stop. The kids who bully her do it because they know she ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/454630/How-can-my-daughter-deal-with-mean-classmate-and-the-felling-that-she-does-not-have-friends-because-?cpage=2#comment_491156 5100.491156 Fri, 10 Jul 2009 15:59:41 -0700 rnlatke My kiddo is going into 4th grade. She has nothing physically wrong with her but she is sooooo shy. She somehow knows who to stay away from and for the ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/454630/How-can-my-daughter-deal-with-mean-classmate-and-the-felling-that-she-does-not-have-friends-because-?cpage=2#comment_490150 5100.490150 Fri, 10 Jul 2009 14:31:08 -0700 cgmarko Your daughter MUST stand up for herself. That is the only way the bullying will stop. I the bullies know that she will not take crap from them, then bullying ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/454630/How-can-my-daughter-deal-with-mean-classmate-and-the-felling-that-she-does-not-have-friends-because-?cpage=2#comment_488480 5100.488480 Fri, 10 Jul 2009 12:46:23 -0700 db17976 The fact is this: Your daughter must learn to live with herself and comments about being beautiful, etc. are meaningless. This is due to the psychological fact that children are ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/454630/How-can-my-daughter-deal-with-mean-classmate-and-the-felling-that-she-does-not-have-friends-because-?cpage=2#comment_484314 5100.484314 Fri, 10 Jul 2009 10:05:46 -0700 taytay9876 Hi. I can probaly solve your daughters problem. I got picked on by people because I had problems with my legs at school. When somebody is making fun of you, ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/454630/How-can-my-daughter-deal-with-mean-classmate-and-the-felling-that-she-does-not-have-friends-because-?cpage=2#comment_470566 5100.470566 Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:31:53 -0700 lightbluedea Hi, notice that your child is being pick on at the school because she has a birth defect,in my opinion as a parent i'll try to explain to your child ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/454630/How-can-my-daughter-deal-with-mean-classmate-and-the-felling-that-she-does-not-have-friends-because-?cpage=3#comment_470456 5100.470456 Thu, 09 Jul 2009 12:24:00 -0700 showtime101 I just finshed 7th grade at my school and kids can be very mean to kids of differnt extremes...i was made fun of because i was smart and got along ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/454630/How-can-my-daughter-deal-with-mean-classmate-and-the-felling-that-she-does-not-have-friends-because-?cpage=3#comment_469892 5100.469892 Thu, 09 Jul 2009 06:51:54 -0700 andca2155 Teacher Parent:The consuler knows some of my daughter problems but I thing that regular meeting will helper more also I was thinking to talk more to the teacher about her http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/454630/How-can-my-daughter-deal-with-mean-classmate-and-the-felling-that-she-does-not-have-friends-because-?cpage=3#comment_455664 5100.455664 Sun, 28 Jun 2009 08:28:10 -0700 andca2155 Thank healtly 11 for taking the time give me that adviseMy daugther is 12 years old she will be in 7th grade.I try to take her to every extra activitiy ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/454630/How-can-my-daughter-deal-with-mean-classmate-and-the-felling-that-she-does-not-have-friends-because-?cpage=3#comment_455663 5100.455663 Sun, 28 Jun 2009 08:23:28 -0700 healthy11 HI. I'm wondering how old your daughter is/what grade? What kinds of things does she enjoy doing for fun? It seems like she may benefit from increasing her participation in ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/454630/How-can-my-daughter-deal-with-mean-classmate-and-the-felling-that-she-does-not-have-friends-because-?cpage=3#comment_454767 5100.454767 Sat, 27 Jun 2009 08:34:19 -0700 TeacherParent Your daughter's school should make an extra effort for her and for any student who has a special challenge as does your daughter. The school's guidance counselor should meet with ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/454630/How-can-my-daughter-deal-with-mean-classmate-and-the-felling-that-she-does-not-have-friends-because-?cpage=4#comment_454740 5100.454740 Sat, 27 Jun 2009 08:01:31 -0700