http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/431386/I-have-a-stepchild-who-is-very-disrespectful-to-teachers-and-adultswhat-do-I-do-if-my-husband-does-not-see-it my stepchild is 14yrs. I also have two other children elemntary age from a previous marriage. Since day one, my step daughter has been putting a wedge between my husband and I. She succeded because we are currently living apart but we are going to counciling. The school she goes to seems to be that everyone is bi-sexual and their are drug busts going on. I am sure that this has added to her ways, but my husband even now still refuses to see what she continuously does to us. I no longer know what to do. I love my husband, my two children adore him, but his daughter is mean to me and screams in my face and hurts my youngest daughter because she is jealous of her. She has drank alcohol on two occasions now that we have caught her and one she did right in front of me and when I yelled at her she said, I turned around so you would not see. I told my husband and he gave her a punishment of cleaning the bathroom??? And he does not understand why this is not a appropriate punishment GreatSchools en-us 3PeasinaPod I wish I had a cure-all for you, but I don't. I think it is great that you are in counseling. If you have a good counselor, they should be ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/431386/I-have-a-stepchild-who-is-very-disrespectful-to-teachers-and-adultswhat-do-I-do-if-my-husband-does-not-see-it?cpage=1#comment_431430 5100.431430 Fri, 22 May 2009 09:25:00 -0700