http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/427125/HELP I have one child...a daughter...since they don't come with manuals...I'm at loss with the new things I'm hearing....the friend I had mentioned that gave me concern....I took some advice and allowed her back over...only to hear many horrible ( to me ) conversations. This little girl spent the entire night on her cell phone and mentioned "sucking" things with a boy on the phone....talking about boobs...she has them...other girls don't have any...etc...and my daughter sits and giggles or doesn't say anything at all...when she did....I thought I was going to faint...Are 11 year old girls that into exploring sex and having these types of discussions with boys these days??...what has happened to our children....I know I can't protect her from hearing these things...and I have talked with her...but should I continue to allow this little girl over when I heard my own child tell her that "everyone at school bets you will be pregnant before you're 15" ? They are 10 and 11....5th grade.. GreatSchools en-us Rockland It can be easy to monitor what goes on in your home but no matter how well you control what goes on in your home it may not be enough ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/427125/HELP?cpage=1#comment_427597 5100.427597 Sun, 17 May 2009 11:54:41 -0700 Child_Of_Ra My daughter is also 11. If I heard what you have heard, I would have no problem saying that particular girl would be no longer welcome to stay at our ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/427125/HELP?cpage=1#comment_427313 5100.427313 Sat, 16 May 2009 17:03:22 -0700 TeacherParent Yes, these days very young girls and boys can be shockingly inappropriate in their language and their behavior. You say it almost made you faint but you didn't step in. ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/427125/HELP?cpage=1#comment_427278 5100.427278 Sat, 16 May 2009 15:44:57 -0700 1seremen The good news is these girls are 10 and 11. In my area, girls started very early and I resented it as I came from another place.Think about a limit ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/427125/HELP?cpage=1#comment_427159 5100.427159 Sat, 16 May 2009 10:47:48 -0700 healthy11 The fact your daughter is trying to "help" the other girl recognize that her talk/behavior is likely to result in early motherhood is a positive thing. It sounds like she ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/427125/HELP?cpage=1#comment_427149 5100.427149 Sat, 16 May 2009 10:35:12 -0700 rachelanns i wouldnt forbid her from seeing her that might kick in a little rebellion i would reasure her that that is not the we you go around acting and let ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/427125/HELP?cpage=2#comment_427137 5100.427137 Sat, 16 May 2009 10:13:50 -0700