http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/295925/will-boot-camp-hurt-our-children-who-out-of-controll-and-not-following-rules-and-behaving-normal Out of controll 11 year old. she is spoiled. defies me as mom.for dad she does what he says. she is mouthy at times towards me as the mom.she does not like school to much. she tries to act older then what she is. in school she struggles on most of her subjects in school. GreatSchools en-us Anonymous Another great book to try is "Have A New Kid by Friday" by Dr. Kevin Leman. It sounds like your child is testing you. I am guessing you are the"softy" ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/295925/will-boot-camp-hurt-our-children-who-out-of-controll-and-not-following-rules-and-behaving-normal?cpage=1#comment_345445 5100.345445 Sun, 01 Feb 2009 06:49:44 -0800 healthy11 I borrowed a copy from my local library, but if Walmart doesn't carry it, I'm sure you can get it at stores like Barnes&Noble or Borders or online at Amazon.com. http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/295925/will-boot-camp-hurt-our-children-who-out-of-controll-and-not-following-rules-and-behaving-normal?cpage=1#comment_299507 5100.299507 Mon, 08 Dec 2008 05:29:46 -0800 chtterbox Where do I find this book?Is it at wal-mart? http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/295925/will-boot-camp-hurt-our-children-who-out-of-controll-and-not-following-rules-and-behaving-normal?cpage=1#comment_299374 5100.299374 Sun, 07 Dec 2008 19:45:56 -0800 healthy11 There's a book you might be interested in getting, called "Get Out of My Life; But First Can You Take Me and Cheryl to the Mall?" It's a "must read" ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/295925/will-boot-camp-hurt-our-children-who-out-of-controll-and-not-following-rules-and-behaving-normal?cpage=1#comment_299303 5100.299303 Sun, 07 Dec 2008 17:48:42 -0800 chtterbox My child is smart when she uses her head. The school says she is fine and that she is just going through the girl stage. they say she has no ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/295925/will-boot-camp-hurt-our-children-who-out-of-controll-and-not-following-rules-and-behaving-normal?cpage=1#comment_299290 5100.299290 Sun, 07 Dec 2008 17:28:38 -0800 healthy11 Before trying boot camp, I'm wondering if you've considered family counseling? Regarding her academic struggles, has your daughter ever been evaluated for learning disabilities or attentional issues? It isn't easy ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/295925/will-boot-camp-hurt-our-children-who-out-of-controll-and-not-following-rules-and-behaving-normal?cpage=2#comment_296029 5100.296029 Wed, 03 Dec 2008 06:04:25 -0800