http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/288647/My-4-year-old-cant-make-decisions If there is a decision to be made my 4 year old wants help. She can't decide what to eat, what to wear or what to play with. Is there something wrong with her? GreatSchools en-us pampambobam What does her pediatrician say about it ? It can't hurt to have her tested but it is possible she's being given too many choices for her age/level of maturity. ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/288647/My-4-year-old-cant-make-decisions?cpage=1#comment_386120 5100.386120 Fri, 20 Mar 2009 07:18:43 -0700 trooper I agree with all of the advice provided. Limit the choices, limit the amount of time to make the choice. Make sure options are agreeable to you.I use to use ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/288647/My-4-year-old-cant-make-decisions?cpage=1#comment_291396 5100.291396 Fri, 21 Nov 2008 07:41:44 -0800 maggie93215 At my house I lay out one pair of shorts/pants and two different shirts they put the one that they want on. As far as the breakfast thing goes if ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/288647/My-4-year-old-cant-make-decisions?cpage=1#comment_290066 5100.290066 Wed, 19 Nov 2008 12:52:07 -0800 metdad Try giving her less options. That works with my kids. Your daughter's only 4...wait ten years and see how long it takes her to pick out an outfit. Unless she's ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/288647/My-4-year-old-cant-make-decisions?cpage=1#comment_288804 5100.288804 Mon, 17 Nov 2008 16:05:49 -0800 tjlove I agree with Healthy11. My daughter is two and if I give her too many choices she just gets overwhelmed. At times, I've found myself (in spite of myself) offering ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/288647/My-4-year-old-cant-make-decisions?cpage=1#comment_288767 5100.288767 Mon, 17 Nov 2008 15:28:47 -0800 healthy11 No, I don't think anything is wrong with her. Is she a perfectionist in some areas? She may be worried about making a choice you don't approve of. You might ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/288647/My-4-year-old-cant-make-decisions?cpage=2#comment_288747 5100.288747 Mon, 17 Nov 2008 14:54:48 -0800