http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/256162/I-have-two-teens-girls-and-I-want-them-to-listen-and-to-do-the-things-I-ask-with-out-me-yelling-at-them GreatSchools en-us Hankysmom I like natural consequences. You didn't pick up your clothes and throw them in the dirty clothes chute and now you have no clean clothes to wear. Not my problem. ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/256162/I-have-two-teens-girls-and-I-want-them-to-listen-and-to-do-the-things-I-ask-with-out-me-yelling-at-them?cpage=1#comment_646457 5100.646457 Tue, 13 Oct 2009 06:56:40 -0700 blacklion There is a program online called the Total Transformation that deals directly with this sort of thing. Here is a sample of what they put out in their newsletter ( ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/256162/I-have-two-teens-girls-and-I-want-them-to-listen-and-to-do-the-things-I-ask-with-out-me-yelling-at-them?cpage=1#comment_270355 5100.270355 Fri, 17 Oct 2008 08:44:11 -0700 debrasuefitzge i have a preteen and i know when i say things to her she heres me but she dont listen.they go through this stage where they drown out what their ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/256162/I-have-two-teens-girls-and-I-want-them-to-listen-and-to-do-the-things-I-ask-with-out-me-yelling-at-them?cpage=1#comment_268414 5100.268414 Tue, 14 Oct 2008 14:35:55 -0700 MSMomm They hear you, but have chosen not to do as you ask, because there are no consequences to their actions. Yelling doesn't have an effect on them, because your level ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/256162/I-have-two-teens-girls-and-I-want-them-to-listen-and-to-do-the-things-I-ask-with-out-me-yelling-at-them?cpage=1#comment_256180 5100.256180 Mon, 22 Sep 2008 12:34:18 -0700