http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/230249/How-can-I-get-my-daughter-to-be-respectful My fifth-grader has gotten so she talks back and makes smart or sarcastic remarks whenever asked to do anything. It is so hard to ask her to do anything, knowing there will be an argument to get her to do it without any mouthing and asking over and over. GreatSchools en-us KimZLA Yes, it's true, parents have to examine their own interactions in the household and make sure they are practicing what they preach. However, don't be afraid to be firm. The ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/230249/How-can-I-get-my-daughter-to-be-respectful?cpage=1#comment_567887 5100.567887 Fri, 14 Aug 2009 02:43:33 -0700 DebraCollins @RyBray no it is not just you and yes, it is very frustrating. It sounds like your issue may have a sibling component as well. Their age difference can really ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/230249/How-can-I-get-my-daughter-to-be-respectful?cpage=1#comment_240722 5100.240722 Thu, 28 Aug 2008 14:45:31 -0700 RyBray I'm glad it's not just us. I too have a 5th Grader that we are having issues with. Along these lines, but different. I don't know if I could call ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/230249/How-can-I-get-my-daughter-to-be-respectful?cpage=1#comment_240555 5100.240555 Thu, 28 Aug 2008 11:58:26 -0700 DebraCollins Limit testing and media examples aside, as most parents agreed here; being firm is important. However, looking at your own behavior and how you communicate and show respect in your ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/230249/How-can-I-get-my-daughter-to-be-respectful?cpage=1#comment_235681 5100.235681 Thu, 21 Aug 2008 13:45:49 -0700 1seremen Great your have the view of an expert. The children of today are different from children of twenty years ago. Respect is two way streets and be creative and remain ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/230249/How-can-I-get-my-daughter-to-be-respectful?cpage=1#comment_230528 5100.230528 Wed, 13 Aug 2008 16:59:42 -0700 GoBuffs Make sure your child knows what RESPECT is. Make sure she understands the concept of mutual respect. Explain on her level when she is listening...Not during a situation... Maybe ask ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/230249/How-can-I-get-my-daughter-to-be-respectful?cpage=2#comment_230479 5100.230479 Wed, 13 Aug 2008 15:32:21 -0700 laura1967 Like they said she is bacially trying things.....when you speak to her or ask her something , be repectful....when she smarts off...SAY, 'NOW LOOK, I AM TIRED OF THIS,I SPEAK ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/230249/How-can-I-get-my-daughter-to-be-respectful?cpage=2#comment_230447 5100.230447 Wed, 13 Aug 2008 14:52:28 -0700 summerblue I think we all go through this as parents at some point...soem children do it sooner than others, but I also was mindful of it and really changed the way ... http://community.greatschools.net/q-and-a/230249/How-can-I-get-my-daughter-to-be-respectful?cpage=2#comment_230421 5100.230421 Wed, 13 Aug 2008 14:20:35 -0700