http://community.greatschools.net/advice/919/For-all-of-you-overwellmed-parents <p>My 16 year old daughter has a horrible behavior problem. I have 3 kids and she is the youngest. She dosent pay attention in class her grades are terrible I just found out she has been sleeping around with older men. And she getts in fights at school. This all started about 2 or 3 months after her 14 birthday. She was always intelligent and bright and i just cant pull that girl out of her now. But i do no that she will not get better if i kick her out or hit her. It will make things worse so this is what im doing and her behavior is beging (begning) to slightly change. First i brought her curfue from 11:45 pm to 9:00 pm. If she is not home she must sit at the kitchen tabel and write 250 times what she did wrong and what is suppost to to (I was late for curfue and I am suppost to be home on time i will not do it again) And she dose not have a door to her bedroom. She dose not have a cell phone anymore. And her computer time is watched while she is on by either me or her father. Her facebook acount got cancled and so did her teenspot and myspace. Me and her father go in and have confrinces with her princibal and techaers and counclers every week. She is starting to realize that i am not playing around with her any more. This has worked for my trouble making bright intelligent child and i hope that i will work for yours. But just rember YOU&nbsp;MUST&nbsp;STICK&nbsp;WITH&nbsp;EVERYTHING&nbsp;YOU&nbsp;SAY&nbsp;NO&nbsp;MATTER&nbsp;WHAT!!!!!!</p><p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p> GreatSchools en-us bester1113 Good job pierccr0450 you found a way to make it work in your house. Unfortunately it took more than that for. My daughter was very talented and outgoing, had a ... http://community.greatschools.net/advice/919/For-all-of-you-overwellmed-parents?cpage=1#comment_539981 4100.539981 Thu, 30 Jul 2009 10:14:57 -0700 pierccr0450 she had permission to be out NOT to SLEEP with OLDER MEN!!!!!!! http://community.greatschools.net/advice/919/For-all-of-you-overwellmed-parents?cpage=1#comment_524358 4100.524358 Tue, 21 Jul 2009 13:37:04 -0700 sindeepak its would be usually easier to prevent a child wander in wrong direction/mix with unhealthy "friends"/get into bad habits. http://community.greatschools.net/advice/919/For-all-of-you-overwellmed-parents?cpage=1#comment_505118 4100.505118 Mon, 13 Jul 2009 11:05:59 -0700 maggie93215 If your daughter had permission to be out, what was she lying to you about? Maybe having a job is a good idea it will keep her busy and you ... http://community.greatschools.net/advice/919/For-all-of-you-overwellmed-parents?cpage=1#comment_503974 4100.503974 Mon, 13 Jul 2009 08:09:59 -0700 pierccr0450 Yes I really hope someday she dose say thanks and I no she will I have been sticking with it and it is going to help and change her life ... http://community.greatschools.net/advice/919/For-all-of-you-overwellmed-parents?cpage=1#comment_470342 4100.470342 Thu, 09 Jul 2009 11:29:18 -0700 pierccr0450 No she dosent have a job right now except for the chores she dose around the house. 11:45 was a privilage but she broke it and lied about what she ... http://community.greatschools.net/advice/919/For-all-of-you-overwellmed-parents?cpage=2#comment_470339 4100.470339 Thu, 09 Jul 2009 11:27:39 -0700 1seremen Good job mum! Is your child working? I think 11:45pm is a privilege for a child who has a par time job.Thanks for sharing! http://community.greatschools.net/advice/919/For-all-of-you-overwellmed-parents?cpage=2#comment_463103 4100.463103 Fri, 03 Jul 2009 18:57:17 -0700 lockmama pierccr0450, I was truly amazed by your post. Generally when I hear a parent complaining that their child doesn't behave, the parent blames the school, teacher, friends, television, etc. It ... http://community.greatschools.net/advice/919/For-all-of-you-overwellmed-parents?cpage=2#comment_460767 4100.460767 Wed, 01 Jul 2009 13:57:39 -0700 maggie93215 Wow, you have sure do have alot on your plate! I have three boys the oldest being 10. Just thinking about teenage life makes my head hurt. Good luck to ... http://community.greatschools.net/advice/919/For-all-of-you-overwellmed-parents?cpage=2#comment_460691 4100.460691 Wed, 01 Jul 2009 13:09:47 -0700