http://community.greatschools.net/advice/794/feels-shut-out <p>I envy you that you, at least, get to see your grandchild.&nbsp; I would tell them that teachers complain about their kids parents and grandparents not taking an interest in their school functions.&nbsp;&nbsp; They should be happy that you want to do something at all.&nbsp; Cutting you out is not acceptable for you or the kids well-being.&nbsp;</p> <p>I only say this because I have also, been cut-out of my little grandchilds life.&nbsp;&nbsp; My daughter passed away five years ago from an asthma attack and her little girl was only three at the time.&nbsp; Now, she is 8 yrs old and I have not been allowed to see her or talk to her over the phone because her grandfather who I divorced over 20 years ago, is her guardian and is alienating her from my side of the family.&nbsp; I send her gifts and was able to wish her Happy Birthday over the phone at her school one day til her Papa found out and put a stop to it at her Elementary School.&nbsp; I don't know how she is doing in school or if she even remembers her Grandma.&nbsp;&nbsp; There should be a law against keeping children from communicating with their grandparents...</p> GreatSchools en-us svick27862 i feel your concern,i had my grandson since my daughter had him and then she was killed in a car wreckmy daughter was 19 my grandson 2 and a haly,the ... http://community.greatschools.net/advice/794/feels-shut-out?cpage=1#comment_334545 4100.334545 Tue, 20 Jan 2009 19:17:13 -0800 maggie93215 Have you ever thought about going to court and getting visitation. I feel so bad when I hear stroies of kids not being able to have that special relationship with ... http://community.greatschools.net/advice/794/feels-shut-out?cpage=1#comment_321962 4100.321962 Thu, 08 Jan 2009 14:09:49 -0800 Anonymous p.s. My aunt now has a wonderful relationship with her granddaughter! http://community.greatschools.net/advice/794/feels-shut-out?cpage=1#comment_315065 4100.315065 Thu, 01 Jan 2009 08:20:04 -0800 Anonymous Check with your state laws. My Aunt went through the same thing with her grandchild who lived in New Hampshire, her son and his wife divorced, the mother of the ... http://community.greatschools.net/advice/794/feels-shut-out?cpage=1#comment_315064 4100.315064 Thu, 01 Jan 2009 08:18:58 -0800