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hatedenison October 20, 2009

A teacher told me she does not have time to help my learning disabled child, what do I do?

hatedenison
My daughter is dyslexic, bi-polar, ADAD, and autistic and they have her in a general classroom, where she is failing. She has some accommodations, but it is not enough. Her reading teacher said she has 150 students and no time to help my 6th grader. What do I do?
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mykidisfirst01
mykidisfirst01 November 7, 2009
We had the same problem...met with the Principal, begged to have her moved to another class, and they refused. Pulled her out of that school and after alot of testing and "fighting" for a teacher who actually wanted to make an effort (not many out there) or special ed program (public schools resist because it affects the budget...for which they have other plans) finally ended up homeschooling. The best decision I ever made! The principal of the "best rated school" in that particular district homeschooled her own kids rather than subject them to the public school she presided over! I worked with her and brought my daughter up to speed in a year, though she still has issues for which adjustments must be made, she had a great year last year in public school. Unfortunately, we got stuck with an uncooperative teacher and a principal who isn't able (or willing?) to help this year. So, its back to homeschooling for us. Ultimately nowadays, YOU have to be willing to do whatever it takes to get your child the help he needs. Laziness and entitlement are the order of the day in our public school system. Too much effort spent on policing the ZERO TOLERANCE policies, and focusing on frivolous activities...not enough on the basic educational elements. sigh.
Good luck.
michellea
michellea October 28, 2009
It must be very frustrating. EAch day that goes by is time lost for your daughter as you know.

I'm suprised that they have 30 days to schedule a meeting. In New England, most of the states give 10 days or less. Who told you they had 30 days? I'd double check, just in case you can get things moving more quickly.

Follow up your phone call with an e-mail that recaps the discussion and what you agreed upon. If she is to go in special ed classes, ask for a copy of the ammendement to her IEP. They cannot make this change in placement without your signed agreement and without documenting it in the IEP. If they won't document, I doubt if they will actually follow through on the services. In the same letter, ask again about the meeting you previously requested. Say something like:

In addition to this change to special ed classes, I would like to follow up on my request for an IEP meeting. On date, I requested a meeting. I was told that in Texas, the school has 30 days to schedule the meeting. This means we must meet by date. I am available on (give 3 dates and times). Please contact me by phone and e-mail within 5 days to schedule the team meeting.

I look forward to receiving a copy of the ammendment and the meeting invitation. Please place a copy of this letter correspondence in name's educational file.

In the meantime, begin gathering examples of your daughters work completed at an independent level and begin to make a list of your concerns. Bring this list to the meeting and ask that it be inlcuded in the IEP under parent and student concerns.



Remember - everything must be documented in writing. If it isn't on paper, it didn't happen.
hatedenison
hatedenison October 28, 2009
She does have an IEP, but they are taking their time at getting the next meeting setup. I asked for one after 3 weeks of school and in Texas they have 30 days to give us a meeting, yet I have heard nothing. I have spoken with my daughters doctor, who will be writing to the state about the lack of help as well. I am also trying to find a local area person from the ACLU to help.

All the waiting is only getting my daughter further behind in school. I asked for her to be moved to special ed classes this morning by phone.
michellea
michellea October 28, 2009
So, she is not an IEP? This is your first step.

You need to make a written referral to start the process going. Per federal law, they must complete the process and hold an eligibility meeting within 60 school days of your written consent. Given weekends and holidays, this can be up to 3 months.


Your letter can go like,
Date:
Dear Principal:
I am writing to refer my daughter name, date of birth for special education eligiblity. Please consider this letter consent to evaluate so that the process can begin immediatly.

Name has had ongoing difficulty with school, we have provided indpendent neuropschological evaluations, and we have sought help from her teacher team. We would like to insure that she receives the specialized instruction she needs to achieve FAPE and make approptriate progress in all aspects of school, particularly in reading, writing and math which have been areas of ongoing struggle and negatively impact her learning in all areas.
I would like to speak to the evaluator prior to the testing to give important background information. I would also be happy to provide the report from the last private evaluation.

I understand that per the child find provisions in IDEA, you must comply with my evaluation and eligibility request.

I look forward to written confimration from you that this process has been initiated within the next 5 days. Please place a copy of this letter in name's permanent file.

Sincerely,
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