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justanothermom April 4, 2009

I Need Advice Before Mon.!!!! My child took 3 plus hits to the head at school--NoOne told ME.....

justanothermom
If a students get hit 3 plus times and doesn't hit back - the principal reviewed tape. Other kid was punished, injured boy's parents not made aware of this. The boy did take the attacker to the ground and held him there until teacher arrived. They did not believe the story until review of tape. The boy went home- 3 goose eggs on his head and very light bruise to cheek area. Since parents didn't know until that night, the boy came home complained w/ headache. Mother gave him advil and allowed him to go lay down, he fell asleep & dindn't tell about incident until that night.
Who decides if a parent gets called regarding this sort of thing?
And do they have guidelines to follow? I need advice before Monday morning!!
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Clarebear
Clarebear April 29, 2009
You need to contact the principal. What led to the assault? Why you were not contacted asap? And if you feel that they blew you off, you need to go directly to your districts superintendent.
You have the right to press charges against this child. The school should have called you to notify you and ask you what you wanted to do about this. Was it on school grounds, walk home?
I've noticed that personal is very prejudice, deciding who is at fault, taking some complaint seriously while others are blown off.
Make sure that your child is safe at all costs. Make sure you know your rights in regards to bullying. And do not let the personal think that this behavior was acceptable.
cherokeemom
cherokeemom April 9, 2009
you should have been called ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!! you need to make this very clear when you have a meeting with the principal.
immrsp
immrsp April 5, 2009
At my school, any time a student gets a blow to the head (fortunately ours are usually from bonking into the monkey bars or smacking into someone on the soccer field, not being pummeled in a fight) the parents are called and the student is given a note to take home. There's no excuse for a student coming home bruised and swollen with no notification to the parents.

The school is probably not able to give the kind of detail about what's going to happen to the other child that the previous poster suggests. Students have privacy rights, even the ones who attack other kids. But the district should have a clear and publicly-available policy outlining the specific consequences for such an offense, and the parents of the injured student can certainly insist on confirmation that this policy was followed.

If this is your child, I would call the district office. If they have a "risk management" department, that would be a good place to start, since they're the folks worried about insurance and liability. If they don't have such a department, go straight to the superintendent's office.
TeacherParent
TeacherParent April 5, 2009
Is this your child or someone else's child? The title of the post suggests it's your child but the post itself suggests it's not.
Whosever child it was, the parents should have been called by the school, of course. Head injuries in particular deserve a 'heads up' given to parents. Parents should be warned so they can observe the child for signs of a possible concussion.
But why didn't the parent ask about the bruise on the cheek? Or the goose eggs on the head? Regardless, schools open themselves up to lawsuits and don't live up to what's appropriate if they don't notify parents of any injury that occurred on school property during school hours.
If a parent is called, they thank the school for calling but as this injury was the result of a physical assault, the school should also be explaining how this is being handled. 1 - how the school will make certain sure this never happens again but explaining how it happened and what they'll do differently from now on to make sure it doesn't happen again. And 2 - what will happen to the other child who assaulted their child.
A punishment is hardly all that should happen here - why did this other child hit? Does the child have a history of doing this? Was this a first? What led to the assault?
If it were my child who'd been hit, those would be my questions - telling me the child had been 'punished' tells me nothing and doesn't reassure me in the least that this won't happen again.

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