Welcome to Greatschools. I don't know what "SO" Social Club is, but at my son's high school, every student organization must have a faculty member as a "moderator" or liaison, and if parents have any questions or concerns, that is the first person to speak to about what the club is doing. In high school, it isn't surprising that some activities go until 9 p.m. at night, or even later, but it should not be all the time. That seems very unusual.

In our school, NO HAZING of any kind is allowed, although it is common for older students to tease freshmen, but not in any physical abusive ways. (For example, if students were all assigned jobs to help decorate the gym for a dance, freshmen might be told to pick up scrap paper and take out the garbage, while older students hung nice streamers.) It is hard to convince a Freshman to act more mature, when they see upperclass students acting silly, too.

I think you really do need to talk to the faculty advisor for this club. You might also like to join the High School Group at community.greatschools.net/groups/11529, so you can compare stories with other parents.