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Loving February 2, 2009

I am having a hard time to dealing with my two year old daughter

Loving
She never listen and she is always getting in to trouble and when she does not get her way she hurts her self or when we are around other children she always want to hurt them by hitting them , pulling hair or bitting them . what should i do when she does this stuff because time out is not working?
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tobbyandlui
tobbyandlui March 19, 2009
When my middle child was on her terrible two's, she used to threw herself on the floor with a temper tantrum, when this used to happened, I put her in her playpen and keep her there for a couple of minutes waiting for her to calm down, I used to tell her to calm down or else she will not come out, babies are pretty smart believe it or not, they try to control you around. She knew that whenever this happens, she was going to go inside her playpen, she really didn't want to be there so she calmed down and she finally stopped this behaviour. I put her to pre-school so she can start socializing with other kids and get her occupied in something. Now she is 10 years old and is very hyper but I don't have any problems with her up to now, only that she is so hyper, she can hardly stays sitting down, in school she is a bright student and teachers never had any complains, she is well behave in school. Usually we tend to think that when kids behave this way is because they have problems, but what it really means is that your child is too smart or hyper and this kind of kids have to spend their time busy in something or in any activity so they can spent the energy they have into that activity, I decided to put her in ballet classes, since she loves it. Vacation time is a nightmare to me, she keeps on saying that she is bored and wants me to take her to the park or to swim,etc., so I have to find time to take her.
imcphers
imcphers March 19, 2009
If I was you the first thing I would do is take her to the doctor and have her tested to make sure it's nothing medically wrong with her. Then, if she is well start taking previleges away, like her favorite toy, or tv show, etc. The things she likes the most to do, you take away for a day or two. Let her know you love her but you control her and not the other way around.
adreamer3
adreamer3 February 25, 2009
Terrible Two's. She's at an age where frustration is king. Especially with hearing difficulties things get rough. As long as you are calm and consistent with your punishments for "bad behavior" it should work out fine. My two year old is doing the same thing, he's not hearing impaired. Make sure everyone learns sign language and don't make "time-outs" too long. Explain her behaviors. "That's not nice" or "That hurt, we don't hurt people." But don't forget to say, "Good job for saying sorry." or "Thank you for sharing." It's helped with my Bubba, just remember SHE'S TWO, TERRIBLE TWO :)
johnalex1414
johnalex1414 February 6, 2009
Have you ever thought that she is 2 and just pushing her limits? I had this problem with my son, now 6, and am currently having this problem with my daughter, 2 (on Valentines). Both of my kids are strong willed and want their way - no matter what. You just have to be consistent in disciplining her. My daughter had constant ear infections but we got her on the right medication (took several months to find the one for her) but that was not the cause for her acting out. I would not jump to the conclusion that your child has a disability because she throws fits - even violent ones. If you are not consistent they will just get worse.
Loving
Loving February 2, 2009
Does any one have some idea to do when she is mean to other kids?
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