Unfortunately, Greatschools is a nationwide forum, and the chance of finding another family from the same town, with a child having the same diagnoses, is slim. How old is your son? (Are you seeking an elementary school, or is he in middle school or high school?) Have you tried using the "Research and Compare" feature on the green menu bar near the top of this page, to see what schools are in the area, and perhaps contacting them directly to ask about their special education services?

I have found the best way to find out about good schools and other resources in a given area is by joining a parent support group in the local community. For example, if your child has ADHD, a CHADD parent support chapter (www.chadd.org) might be helpful, or if they had dyslexia try IDA, or www.thearc.org is good for autism/downs syndrome.
For general info/support, I'd also like to invite you to join Greatschools Learning and Attention Difficulties Group at community.greatschools.net/groups/11554