Have you notified the school that your son has ADHD? Under the "Child Find" provisions of IDEA (federal special ed law), schools need to proactively screen and evaluate if they are aware that a child might have a disability that would be covered by an IEP (Individual Education Program).

I would start bey becoming familiar with special ed law at www.wrightslaw.com. In the search box, research ADHD, IEP's and 504 plans. While your child might not qualify or need such legal protections yet, it is important that you understand what his options will be moving forward.

In the meantime, you can help ease his transition by bringing him to the school, letting him see the playground, and if the administration allows, bringing him to see his new classroom. If you get class lists prior to school, see if you can set up a play date with kids from his class. He will feel more comfortable if he knows someone the first day.

Try to get him in a daily routine of waking up early before school starts. This will make your morning routine easier and make it more calm for him.

I always send in a one page letter to a new teacher that outlines my child's strengths, challenges, interests and tips for working with him. I also offer to meet by phone or in person to discuss the info in more detail.

And yes - please post over at the Learning and Attention Difficulties group. You'll see some similar questions and be able to interact with parents that have similar issues. Here's the link: community.greatschools.net/groups/11554

I know how difficult this is for you. My nephew was dianosed with adhd at an early age. I am a preschool teacher and I have had my share of children with disabilities. I try to work through their disability by making a plan for the child and parent along with things that I will try in the classroom. You could talk with his teacher and explain that you do not want him labeled but that he does have a special need. Teachers can often provide you with great resources for your child's development and growth. Check with your school administrator because there are programs for you child available. My nephew's teachers made a student plan with him to help keep him on track. I hope this helps and best of luck to you and your son!

You may want to post your question in the Learning and Attention Difficulties group. Many parents who post there have children with ADHD and should be able to lend some advice. Also, you may find suggestions and answers from reading past posts in that group.