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 We now have several new members.  It would be great if you could introduce yourself and tell us a little bit about your child and the type of school they are attending.  Please remember to respect your child's right to privacy.  Phrase things so that we can start talking.

I will start.  I have a 17 year old son who is gifted, dyslexic and also bipolar.  Last year we had to battle our school district to get our son placed out of district.  Our son was placed at a therapeutic HS that we felt very good about.  But the placement ended up being a disaster.  We then struggled to get him appropriately placed this fall.  He is now attending another therapeutic school which is a much better match for him and he is doing quite well.  He has the support he needs, teachers who understand his illness and how it sometimes can impact him and peers who are appropriate given the type of kid he is.

He recently has become very focused on what he needs to do to prepare for applying to college and to moving towards his goals.  We are very proud of him.  But it has been a long haul.

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BWright
BWright November 12, 2008
Re: New members introduce yourselves
I am sorta new to this group. Joined months ago and just creating time to look at all the groups I joined. I'm surprised I didn't come straight to this group, as my child was in a WWASP school for 11 months.

When I brought my child home, I vowed to support those who are speaking up about the conditions of these schools a priority. I support CAICA (Coilition Against Institutionalized Child Abuse). There is a pending law suit against the above mentioned afflilation of schools. The GAO (Government Accountability Office) conducted hearings about these schools, watch here www.caica.org/GAO.htm#you%20tube

I understand fully that there is a need in our society to assist families with these difficult problems. I also have experienced first hand that regulations, inspections and qualified staff need be mandated.

I hope I'm not to late coming to this discussion. It is a subject that is long overdue.
Denali
Denali March 20, 2008
Re: New members introduce yourselves
Hi Friends,

I think this group is important for other struggling parents. However, I'm signing off from GreatSchools, as I explain below:

community.greatschools.net/groups/11554/discussion/157805

I hope all your children thrive & flourish.
empeg1
empeg1 March 4, 2008
Re: New members introduce yourselves
Actually, Denali, when the Cedu schools closed the kids were not stranded in rural Idaho. Staff stayed with the kids until parents came for them. The actual closing of the schools, with the last child out, took 10 days. Staff stayed on, without pay.
The Cedu schools were struggling for a while. Their flagship school in Idaho, RMA, closed several months earlier, signallling to parents that there was trouble. That said, the corporation was totally unethical, taking in new kids right up to the time of closure.
I know the CEDU schools well. My daughter attended BCA, one of the schools in Idaho. It had its pluses and minuses. The teachers were wonderful with my daughter. BCA specialized in working with LD kids who had also a clinical profile. The therapeutic part of the program was not wonderful. After 17 months at BCA my daughter left BCA and went to a transition program, also in Idaho, in the same community. There she received the clinical help she needed. The problems I saw with Cedu was their lack of understanding of mental illness, especially for the kids at BCA. To this day, I wonder if my daughter would have been better off in a residential treatment center.
By the way, I was referred to BCA by an ed consultant, therapist and her wilderness program. It is so tough for parents to make these choices, when you do not know what is out there. One thing I know now. For profit and the best interest of the child do not mix!
Denali
Denali March 3, 2008
Re: New members introduce yourselves
Hi, I'm Denali (same ol' Denali from SchwabLearning). I have 3 children, 2 stepsons aged 30 & 28, and a daughter who is 19. One of my stepsons finally went to rehab when he was in hs mid-20s, and has be sober and very active in youth/young adult AA ever since.

I began following the therapeutic school industry closely in March of 2005, when the CEDU chain of schools closed abruptly, leaving kids stranded in remote rural locations.

My interest arose out of my experience being a board member for several private (gen.ed, non-therapeutic) schools. I was astonished that a chain could collapse in that way.

Therapeutic schools can be a life-saver, as Jisper and empeg1 have demonstrated. In my personal life, I know several families who have sent a child to a therapeutic program with good results.

But the industry as a whole is unregulated, and has some really abusive programs heavily marketed to panicked parents.

I regard my future contributions to this group as drawing on the knowledge I've gleaned over the past 3 years of study.
empeg1
empeg1 March 2, 2008
Re: New members introduce yourselves
Hi Jisper: My 20 year old daughter is a graduate of therapeutic programs. She also has LD and ADJD-I. My daughter began to tumble in her freshman year in HS. By Nov. of her sophmore year, my girl was in crisis, skipping school, involved in high risk behavior, attempted suicide, a run away, cutting. I was frantic. Our county mental health program assessed her as being unsafe at home; our SD concurred. After 2 months at a very good therapeutic wilderness program, my daughter went to a residential program where she flourished. Before graduation my daughter entered a transition program, attending public HS. My girl, after years of not getting what she needed in our local SD found a supportive place, teachers who saw her strengths and a chance to flourish. After HS, she has worked full time and now will start college in the Fall, in Colorado. I think in anticipation of this challenge, my daughter is struggling some now, but her mom is far more savvy. I realize that the process of getting better is one with ups and downs. I am proud of my daughter for all that she has accomplished.

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