Thanks healthy11. I have heard people mention martial arts were good. I have never really considered it, but will give it a try.

Believe it or not, martial arts classes are considered very good for students with learning differences. Not all instructors will teach 3/4 year olds, but my son's Tae Kwon Do program was affiliated with Martial Arts America, and the gentleman and his wife (who were both black belt instructors) had 3 "highly active" sons of their own, and plenty of experience with children of all ages. The benefit of programs like martial arts is that the kids can all generally be working on something (a kick, a hand move, etc) at the same time, without a lot of "waiting around" for other kids to take their turns, or fancy equipement to be set up. It teaches self-discipline, but is also a very visual, interactive sport. As kids get older, if they stay with it, they develop a sense of being on a team, and seeing the same kids at practices, but it's their own practice and determination that determines how they'll progress through the ranks. That's far better than trying to be a goalie or a catcher on a "competitive team" where if you lose focus and miss the ball, etc., the kids incur everyone else's wrath! Another good activity is supposed to be swimming, but my son was slender and "froze" in the water as a youngster. Perhaps it'll be a better experience for you to try.