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When my son left preschool & headed for kindergarten, he was extremely anxious.  prior to beginning our summer vacation, i called his new school & asked to come in to view the classroom.  the teacher & aide, as well as the children, were very welcoming.  my son got to sit on the rug with the other kids for a story, hold up the picture cards for weather of the day & watch how a typical morning routine unfolded.  during the summer we would drive by the school & talk about where he would play & what classroom was his.  we also were able to go back into the classroom a week or so before school & meet with his teacher again.  i was amazed when i dropped him off the first day!  no tears at all & he readily separated from me.  i would recommend meeting the teacher, touring the school, asking if there is a new students/parents welcoming committee.  do all you can to set up playdates (if your kids are younger) prior to them entering a new school, so your child will know at least one or two children in his classroom.  as a parent, it helps to join the parent/teacher organization or to volunteer at lunchtime (a good way to meet other moms & develop relationships with your child's classmates as well).

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MsReynolds
MsReynolds July 10, 2008
Re: Adjusting/Transitioning to a new school
I just moved and my kids will be attending a new school and making new friends. I am worried that they will not like the new school. My son already wants to stay with his dad because he wants to be with his old friends. I'm trying to keep him positive. My daughter seems to be excited. Would you let your son live with his dad because he wants to remain at his old school/be with old friends.
TeacherDad
TeacherDad July 3, 2008
Re: Adjusting/Transitioning to a new school
My son told his mother to park the car down the street from the school and get her kissing over with! She cried all the way home.
On the first day of school we have many lower elementary parents who want to just be in the hall close by their child's classroom. We allow it on the first day, but after that, they must stay home.
Having your child attend the class and meet the teacher before the first day was a good idea. We have a Parent Night the week before school. I get to explain the procedures, rules and expectations. I give the kids and parents copies of them and I have a time where the parents are asked to do some of the work that their children will be doing during the year.
Everyone seems to enjoy it and I get to meet the parents in a relaxed, non-threatening atmosphere.
handpickedone
handpickedone June 23, 2008
Re: Adjusting/Transitioning to a new school
My son is going to the 4th grade. The thing is that he will be attending school in a totally different state. He was attending school in North Carolina and will be in Maryland now because he is with his father. I am opened for suggestion as to how I can still be involved with his education while being so far away?
handpickedone
handpickedone June 23, 2008
Re: Adjusting/Transitioning to a new school
I agree with poet11. getting your child familiar with the school, teacher, principal and the classroom setting prior to the actual day of school is a major plus.
suzanne0435
suzanne0435 April 15, 2008
Re: Adjusting/Transitioning to a new school
In my area when children only go half day during the year. I wish that this area would get a full day of kindergarten. The surrounding counties do. This is the only county I know of in my area that still just has half day kindergarten. When children start kindergarten here they only go for 1 day the first week than two the second. This is the transition faze. It gives them time to get to know the other children and the teacher. During this time they are shown the building and get to know their schedule for the year
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