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Positive Reinforcements and a lot of Patience work!

My child was diagnosed with mild autism and speech delay when he was 2 years old.  He had limited verbal language at the time, numerous big tantrums, and sensory issues.  He received early intervention with the regional center for a year, and was transitioned at a public school district.  He is now 4-1/2 years old, and is being recommended for a general ed Kindergarten.

Through the years of therapy, positive reinforcements in school and at home has always been the KEY INGREDIENT of his every improvement.  He loved SKITTLES so much then.  And through SKITTLES, he learned to READ at age 3, WRITE and DRAW at age 4, and grossly increased his vocabularies every month.  He just kept completing his goals a month or two ahead of time.  In such a way that we had to do his IEP in less than a year for revisions.

At home, my husband and I used PATIENCE...a lot of it...to deal with our child's sensory issues.  We worked with him with prayers too.  We would talk to him a lot.   We would ask questions and would have him answer thru a variety of multiple choices.  It was like filling in the blanks so he'd learn to answer a specific question.  We would tell him everything, from "what to expect" to "consequences of his actions".  It was very tough at first, but we're reaping an excellent fruit now.

Looking at him now, no one would ever think he has disability issues.  People would look at him now as a LITTLE GENIUS in the making.  He still has some speech related issues due to his articulation, but school psychologist say that he has a better prognosis.

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cjohansson
cjohansson March 9, 2008
Re: Patience and Positive Reinforcements always work!!
Thank you for sharing your story. It's great that you are having such wonderful successes with your son. I worked with an autistic boy one summer when I was in high school and it was an amazing learning experience for me to find that, while he struggled in some areas, he was far ahead of his peers in others. It taught me not to pity people for their "disabilities" but to see each person as having both strengths and weaknesses. Of course this seems so obvious now that I wonder why I had to learn it, but no one is perfect.

I hope your great efforts continue to pay off!

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